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an amazing and wonderful mother

by Patty Butler

I was born in Long Island, New York. My father was transferred quite often as my older brother, Chuck, and I were growing up. We lived in Chicago, Atlanta, St. Louis.

When I think back over the years, I am amazed at my mother's stamina. When I was ten years old I had a heart condition that kept me in bed for about eleven months. That meant not even putting my feet on the floor. For part of that time, I had to have an ice pack on my chest every half hour. We lived in a two story house, so my Mother had to go up and down the stairs just about every half hour all day. I really don't know how she did it. My Dad traveled a lot so he wasn't home to help Mom very often. I really didn't appreciate my Mom until I had children of my own. I wish I could tell her, now, how I feel about her and all the things she did for me.

My Mother was a wonderful cook. After I was grown and married, Mother went to the Pope School of Cooking in Chicago and really became a gourmet cook. She was always happy to share her recipes with others...and never left out an ingredient. One of my favorite recipes of my Mom's is a chocolate ice box cake. She made it for my birthday every year for as long as I can remember. I have the recipe on a card in her own hand writing. I have copied it over as I don't want to lose the original.

I met my husband, Jack, when we were in high school. We will have been married 57 years this December. We moved a lot, too, and lived in Dallas, Houston, Tulsa and Charlotte, North Carolina which is our permanent home. We have a daughter who is married and lives in Florida with her husband. They have a daughter (married) and a son (in the marines). Our older boy is a Presbyterian minister who lives in Ohio with his wife. Our youngest son lives in Raleigh, North Carolina with his wife and four children.

About Patty: "I have been a stay at home mom. I have been very active in an organization called P.E.O. and in the Presbyterian Church everywhere we have lived. I also volunteer at the hospital near here. We have been retired for 18 years. We were avid campers and have traveled all over the US, Canada and outside of the US. I have had a wonderful life and wouldn't change a thing unless it would be to have our children live closer so that we could see them more often."

Editor's note: Patty said she is fine, despite (perhaps because of) her mother's trips up and down the stairs. With a daughter like Patty, what mother would mind?

 

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